Ring for what?

So i was sitting in the living room today watching youtube ^_^. And i came across some videos of The Tyra Banks Show. There was one called "Open Marriage". Now just by the look of the title i knew it was going to be something about sex or cheating or something, so being the curious one that i am i clicked on it. And this very successful nice looking couple were sitting on a couch talking about their relationship...ya, ya get on with the story. So the lady said that she is "in love" with numerous people and she has relationships with these numerous people. Mind you, she is happily married and has been for 6 years to her husband which she loves dearly and they have a baby, with a beautiful house laddi daddi da.... So she was telling Tyra how much she loved these two people other than her husband and that her and her husband thought that it would be just so great to be able to sleep with who ever they want to (being married mind you) and the other one doesnt care. They say they are keeping their marriage together by having numerous "love/sex partners". The woman says that she enjoys "expressing her sexuality". She doesnt know why her love for more than one person shouldnt be permitted. UMMM hello lady your married. What the hell are people even doing now? Why do you even get married if you are going to sleep around on your spouse???? Why would you want your spouse to sleep with another person and be ok with it??? Oh my gosh i am so appalled by this. The lady's husband said that if him and his wife were to have sex that night and he saw an attractive woman earlier that day than he would actually fantasize about that woman while making love to his wife, and get this....he would be open to tell her that he is fantasizing about another woman. For me this is wrong on so many levels. So i am not completely stupid when it comes to men and woman, I realize that there are attractive people out there, and sometimes your spouse may get a little "somethin' somethin" into his or her head that probably shouldnt be there, but come on do people continuously think about it the rest of the day and keep that image in their head??? I know that i dont! I mean think about it, your at a nice restaurant with your boyfriend/girlfriend, wife/husband and your waitress or waiter is super gorgeous...Ya, maybe you say "wow him or her are pretty attractive" but you dont friggen start drooling over it...if your normal or now how to act like a good spouse you dont. And then just picture this you go home and want to get "freaky" and then your spouse is like "wow that waiter or waitress tonight was hot and while i am having sex with you i am going to be thinking about him or her the whole time". WOW come on people, first if my boyfriend told me that im pretty positive nothing would be happening that night, also i would wonder what the hell that i am doing wrong for my spouse to have to fantasize about another woman!!!! I just couldnt even believe this video, the people in it were all so happy one big happy orgy family. Truly made me want to stick my finger down my throat and puke up my dinner. If i was in that kind of relationship (which i never ever ever would be) but hypothetically speaking if i were than i would most likely be deeply depressed, it would make me so jealous and in competition with everyone around me. Think about it having to come home from work and seeing your husband laying there with another woman and you being okay with it? I mean what is this the middle east????? Pretty soon guys are going to start marrying 6 woman at a time. I just cannot get over this at all.
When you get married you are giving yourself and your complete self to that other person, it is such a sacred thing to do and if you are not mature enough to give yourself completely and not have to have other sex lives other than your husband or wife then why the hell get married, why even be in a relationship. How could you look at your wife or husband everyday of your life and know that they have slept with more than you, or further more know that they are continuously sleeping with more than just you, how can someone be fine with that? You know what this isnt even a case on taking things seriously or "being old fashioned" this is a case about respecting your self and respecting your spouse, to have and to hold in sickness and in health, as long as you BOTH shall live i dont think the vows say anything about "sleep with as many people as you want in this marriage and be okay with it, and tell your husband or wife about the "lay" that you just got right before he or she got home from work"...Oh my god is all i can say to this, i really am smitten by these people on the Tyra show. I mean i knew Tyra had some pretty effed up things on her show but really "open marriages" WTF has happened to the world. WTF has happened to a good old fashioned one man one woman marriage. You know this seriously makes me wonder why lesbian and gay sex wasnt passed in California, if people are married and sleeping around on eachother with eachothers approval then i say what the hell let the gays get married. Geez our world is truly a joke to me. Theres a word for what that couple is doing and it isnt "expressing their love with others" its called adultery and it is illegal. Imagine what their child is going to think when he grows up? My mommys and slut and so is my dad, and they are happy about it. This is damaging on all levels and disgusting on all levels. COMPLETELY WRONG on all levels. All i can say is WTF. YUCK

Here is the link, you have to watch all of these videos to get the full details...if you want the details. Oh ya, and if any of you are into that kind of thing then sorry if i offended you and the more power to you, but it is really gross. I just wonder how people that "practice" that kind of "share the love thing" take their marriages seriously? How could they take it seriously????? OMG OMG i cant, i dont, i dont even want to talk about this anymore it makes me absolutly sick and completely pissed off.  Why would you even want to share your man or your woman with another person??? Are you crazy? Are you mentally unstable? Are you on drugs?  WOW.
Heres the link: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2UthtS7JBwo&feature=related

Anyways, tell me what you think, if your against it, if your into that kind of thing...I'd really like to hear what y'all have to say about this one.

Peace and Love.